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I Ran Myself Ragged

by Nina on November 17, 2011

It was about 11:30 a.m. this morning when I realized I’d been working on a million things around the house and had not even thought about sitting at the computer or getting dressed. Jack had already taken his morning nap and was up again. He had been up for about an hour and we were on the floor for activity time. I was still in my pajamas. My hair still in a pony tail which I could feel was starting to give me a headache. My hair is really heavy.

Between 11:32 a.m. and 12:30 p.m., I managed to get Jack situated in his ExerSaucer (which he loves, by the way) in my bathroom so I could take a quick shower. I did not have time to wash my hair so back in a pony tail it went. And now my head is throbbing. I also dressed myself, threw a few essentials for Jack in my purse and loaded the two of us into the car for a quick trip to Wal-Mart.

I don’t normally shop at Wal-Mart but I’ve found it’s much easier if I go to places where I can do everything in one stop. For example, I was in charge of the potato casserole and an appetizer dip for my grandpa’s birthday party tonight. I needed to shop for all of the ingredients; plus I wanted to get some pictures printed and I needed water for Jack’s bottles. Wal-Mart was the answer. Two days ago I needed formula, a children’s book, toothbrushes, something to cook for dinner and find out my new ring size since having Jack. Sam’s was the answer! I’m sure you’ve gotten the point by now.

Anyway, I successfully made the trip to Wal-Mart with Jack in less than an hour from door to door. And spending less than $100. A miracle.

JH so thoughtfully picked up a sandwich for me at a local Italian deli and was waiting at home to give Jack his 2:00 bottle so I could eat lunch and start cooking. He is one good egg.

I ate my lunch with one hand while unloading the groceries and putting the chicken on with the other.

I had two hours to make a giant serving of potato casserole and a double batch of SkinnyTaste.com buffalo chicken dip.

I had a committee meeting at 4:30 p.m.

I still needed to print out my paper work for the meeting.

What about Grandpa’s birthday? Yes, it started at 6!

The potato casserole went in the oven at 4:25 as I literally ran out the door (thankfully I live 2 minutes from the meeting location) and JH put in the dip while I was gone so it would be hot to take to the party. He did a great job but his wife was late so the dip was room temperature by the time we arrived at the party. Oh and even better I ended up forgetting the chips at home.

By this point, you could not even tell I had put makeup on earlier in the day. You could see my headache in my eyes. And my nerves were wearing thin.

We pulled in the driveway at my parents’, my sweet brother welcomed us to help carry Jack in so we could get all the food.

I forgot the diaper bag. Supermom!

Thankfully my mom keeps diapers, wipes, formula and bottles on hand.

My potato casserole was just warm once we got there. So much for hot.

One of my uncles says to me, “Life is different now with a baby, huh?”

I quickly responded, “Oh I’m not late because of Jack. I’m late because of me!”

It’s true. Why in the world would I agree to making two dishes, a committee meeting and a family dinner all between the hours of 12:30 p.m. – 6 p.m. in one day?

But here’s the thing… I did it and I’m glad I did. Our committee meeting went well. We enjoyed a wonderful evening with family celebrating my grandpa’s birthday and my grandparents’ anniversary too. Everyone enjoyed my casserole just the way it was and it didn’t matter I forgot the chips for the dip. No one cared.

Oh, do you remember those pictures I picked up at Wal-Mart? I forgot to take those to the party too.

At 9:00 p.m. I realized I had not gone to the bathroom since 12:15.

My head hurts. I’m thirsty. I feel accomplished. Yet beat.

Today is over. Tomorrow is a new day.

This girl is going to bed.

{ 24 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Katie November 18, 2011 at 10:18 am

Sounds like you sure were busy! Hopefully you got some rest.

Isn’t it funny that after you have a baby something so simple as taking a few seconds to go to the restroom is now a ‘luxury’ … that is how I feel sometimes anyway :)

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2 Lindsey November 18, 2011 at 10:54 am

You should be nominated for superwoman Nina! I feel the same way- so many days it’s like “ugh I need to do xyz” all by a certain time and I get a headache just thinking about it, but you did it all! And I’m sure your family didn’t mind you forgetting the pictures- you had Jack with you! Just wanted to say that I’ve been following your blog for awhile now and you are a fabulous writer! Thank you for sharing!

Lindsey
@birthdayrn

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3 Katie November 18, 2011 at 12:34 pm

That’s what I felt like (and still do). This time of year doesn’t help. I feel like we’ll be in a constant state of chaos until after Christmas.

I wrote about it yesterday on the blog. It seems to feel 10x’s worse whentravel too. Sheer exhaustion.

Hopefully you slept well. That helps!

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4 Alexandra November 18, 2011 at 2:33 pm

Where was your life planner??? I thought the deal with that was to avoid days like yesterday. Also, maybe if you stayed off the computer and didn’t tweet and blog so much, you could be more organized. Many people deal with far more than you do with more children and responsibilities. I bet you called JH and cried to him about all you had to do and that is why he showed up at home with your lunch (which it wouldn’t hurt for you to go without for a day) and to care for Jack. He probably feared that you would go off on Jack as you have done before, I feel sure, and came home to protect his child. You try to come off to everyone as all organized from time to time. You didn’t make a wreath for the front door and you won’t just as you will never finish the nursery and show photos of it. You are embarrassed to compare it with your blogger friends whose nurseries in homes that they own are so much nicer. You are and will continue to be a fake and a domestic failure, Nina. I feel for Jack because I think you didn’t realize how demanding a job it is to care for a baby—especially if you are a narcissist who truly only cares for yourself. You do the things that you should do with Jack because you are supposed to do them, not because you want to do them. You love him, but you resent him on some level. I wonder how long it will take for a very needy JH to figure all of this out about you. It’s not like he wasn’t warned. I bet Kiks and Frosty are worried that you will be back with them at some point.

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5 Mojito Maven November 18, 2011 at 5:12 pm

Dear “Alexandra”,

I feel like you need a hug, followed by a swift quick in the vagina.

No love,

MM

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6 Lulu November 18, 2011 at 5:59 pm

“like”

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7 Adrienne November 18, 2011 at 7:22 pm

double like.

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8 Nina November 19, 2011 at 9:13 am

Triple like.

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9 Beth Dunn November 18, 2011 at 5:21 pm

New borns, it is a hectic time. It gets better–I promise. But once mobile it will be even harder to take those shower. Take care.
xoxo
SC

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10 elizabeth November 18, 2011 at 5:40 pm

“Alexandra”

Get a life! Why do you & others feel the need to write such horrible things? All Nina and other bloggers do is put their lives out there, you don’t have to like what they say then don’t read!

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11 Lulu November 18, 2011 at 6:02 pm

I totally feel for you, friend! There are so many commitments these days, and so little time to do them all. Lucky for Jack, he has a smart, productive, engaged, motivated mama! :) All your thoughtfulness and inspiration does not go unnoticed by the ones that love you, believe me! :) xo

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12 Colleen November 18, 2011 at 6:17 pm

Listen “alexandra” I have no clue why you feel the need to rip others apart. Clearly you are the narcissistic one here. You are a sick person if you think ripping someone apart like this is ok. Bullying is never ok, and that’s exactly what you are. So move along and go find some joy in your own life.

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13 Adrienne November 18, 2011 at 7:19 pm

The best people in the world are loved and clearly you show that. We all have those days but that’s what a beer with JH at the table are for;) I hope you got some sleep. Many blessings from NC!

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14 meme November 18, 2011 at 7:43 pm

i love your face.

and i’m jealous of your bladder, if i went that long without a pee break i’d be borrowing one of SG’s diapers!

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15 Nicole November 18, 2011 at 8:09 pm

Nina,
I LOVE LOVE LOVE that you kept Alexandra’s comment up! It is VERY reflective of what bloggers face. And it does NOT reflect negatively on you, your life, or your blog! It only serves to show that SHE has TOO MUCH TIME to read a blog only to mock it! And NO DOUBT VERY JEALOUS.
Nicole

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16 Lara November 18, 2011 at 8:50 pm

Alexandra-
What I find most interesting is that you had the time to craft a well written, articulate, and hateful response. Perhaps if you spent less time at your computer crafting nasty and hurtful rhetoric you would have a better and more fulfilling life. Moreover, you don’t have to read this blog. If you don’t like the topics discussed here move on. Your pathetic attempt to make yourself feel big by degrading others is trite. We don’t want to here it, and Nina doesn’t deserve it. Move on.
Thanks,
Lara

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17 Crystal November 18, 2011 at 8:56 pm

Its unfortunate to see that Alexandra has nothing better to do in life. Pure Jealousy. Obviously, she must enjoy your blog a little bit, if she has been reading it long enough to know that you haven’t shared Jacks nursery with your readers! My gosh, get a life, Alexandra!

Nina,
I love your blog! You are a very sweet person, and I thoroughly enjoy reading your blog each week! Thank you for posting Alexandra’s comment! I am so sorry that you and all the other successful bloggers endure this each day! Very eye-opening to the new bloggers, like me! Have a great weekend!
And- Mojito Maven– You are hilarious! I was laughing so hard at your comment!

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18 Amanda November 18, 2011 at 9:04 pm

Wow Alexandra, you certainly do have a lot of time on your hands. To not only read a blog of a woman you clearly don’t like or respect, but to also take the time out of your clearly busy day to comment on how many things she is doing wrong. You come off as someone who is obviously not a mother (and because I am, I can relate to everything that Nina wrote and then some), and obviously don’t have much of a life if you’re going to sit around and think about all the things that are wrong with Nina’s life. It makes me kind of sad for you.

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19 Amy November 18, 2011 at 9:38 pm

you just summed up motherhood for me in a nutshell. some days are just crazy days. i literally have days where i’m trying to remember if i even brushed my teeth or put on deodorant – ha! :) thanks for sharing, nina. keep on keeping on!
xoxo

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20 Cate November 18, 2011 at 10:52 pm

I don’t know how many of you actually know Nina. She is the sweetest and one of the most organized people I know. Who cares if she scheduled more into a day than she thought? Everyone does it. Especially around the holidays. Take a look at your own life before you go busting someone that you don’t know in real life. You a great mother and wife Nina! I hope to be as great as you someday!

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21 Tammy Streuter November 19, 2011 at 12:43 am

Alexandra,

I would like to introduce you to a Man that holds your eternal life in His hands, His name is Jesus. I’m guessing by your NASTY HATEFUL comments that you have never met Him. My advice to you is that you better get to know Him ASAP. I have great news for you, If you are willing to stop being a NASTY HATEFUL person and start acting like a descent human being worthy of breathing the air that the Good Lord has given us, and you ask Him to forgive you, He will forgive you for being a NASTY HATEFUL person. Just think, you might even learn to like yourself.
By the way, I know Nina very well because I am her Aunt. You need to know a few things about her. Nina Rocks as a Niece, She Rocks as a Daughter, She Rocks as a Granddaughter, She Rocks as a Wife, She Rocks as a Friend, She Rocks as a Christian and Yes, She Rocks as a Mommy.

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22 Jennifer November 19, 2011 at 5:02 pm

Nina,
I loved this post because it was just and honest post about your day. A day that most of us mommies have experienced (with or without our life planner! Ha!) many times. You are doing a great job balancing everything! It’s tough at times, and sometimes you just need to share about it. JH and Jack are lucky boys to have you! :)

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23 Taylor Johnson November 19, 2011 at 6:17 pm

I’m sending you a virtual hug!!! Especially after reading Alexandra’s words. Head up Mama, you’re doing a great job!!

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24 BB November 20, 2011 at 2:53 pm

Nina, we have all been there before, lol! You are doing great!!
I do have some words of wisdom for “Alexandra”
Alexandra, you are quite pathetic! Obviously your life is less than perfect or you wouldn’t be eaten alive by jealousy and cowardice! Here’s a suggestion, why don’t you get a life and try to better your own state of well being instead of being nasty to others under the veil of anonymity…..Clearly you don’t respect yourself, anybody that allows themselves to talk like this about others is lacking in self-respect. It’s quite sad, really. I hope you find some happiness in your life by working through your own isues…

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